Now live in Ireland and the UK · available on Google Play

Co-parenting, made easier.

The calm, private app that helps separated and divorced parents raise their children together, with less stress. Messages, schedules, expenses, documents and your child's wellbeing, all in one safe place.

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Built in Ireland · Child-first · No data sold

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GDPR compliant Built & hosted in Ireland Private by default No data sold Child-first by design
Why ParenThing exists

It's not separation that harms children most. It's the conflict they sense.

Separation is hard enough. The day-to-day around the children shouldn't make it harder. Yet for many families it does: the message that lands wrong, the pickup that gets missed, the cost nobody agreed, the child quietly caught in the middle.

The research is consistent on this. ParenThing is built to take the heat out of the everyday, so the focus can stay where it belongs: on your child.

The everyday is where families struggle most.

Three numbers that shape why a calmer, shared space matters in Ireland.

1 in 4
Families with children in Ireland
is a one-parent family. (CSO Census)
Over half
Separated parents
say communicating with their co-parent feels impossible. (Barnardos)
1 in 10
Children in Ireland
are affected by acrimonious separation. (Barnardos)
What ParenThing is

One shared, private space for everything to do with your children.

Both parents see the same clear picture, so there's less to argue about and less to forget. Three things shape everything we build.

Child-first

The child's safety and wellbeing comes before either parent's convenience.

Safe by design

Private by default. Calm by design. And a clear record when you need one.

For every family

Separated, divorced, blended, or co-parenting from two homes.

What you can do with it

Everything to do with the children, in one calm place.

Instead of scattered texts, email and WhatsApp, one shared place both parents can trust.

Calm messaging

One shared thread, with a gentle nudge that helps a message land the way you meant it, before it turns into an argument.

Child wellbeing check-ins

Children check in with how they feel. Both parents see a private mood trend over time, never the child's private words.

Shared calendar & handovers

Pickups, drop-offs, appointments and activities, with everyone on the same page. Children see only their own schedule.

Expenses & child support

Log shared costs, request and approve payments, and keep things fair and on the record.

Documents

Medical, school and legal papers, kept in one secure place both parents can reach.

Tasks & packing lists

So nothing important gets left behind between two homes.

Private child journal

Every child gets a space that is theirs alone, that only they can see.

Court-ready records

Invite a mediator or solicitor into a consent-based view, and create clear, timestamped records if communication ever needs review. What court-ready actually means.

Inside the app

See it before you download it.

Real screens from the app both parents share. Swipe through.

ParenThing dashboard showing today's schedule, messages and money in one place

Your day at a glance

Schedule, messages and money for both homes, all caught up.

AI tone checkParenThing messaging with an AI tone suggestion before a message is sent

Calm messaging

A gentle nudge before a message lands the wrong way.

ParenThing shared calendar with pickups, drop-offs and activities

Shared calendar

Pickups, drop-offs and activities, with everyone on the same page.

ParenThing finance screen with shared expenses and approvals

Expenses, sorted

Shared costs logged, requested and approved, on the record.

ParenThing child wellbeing dashboard with a private mood trend

Child wellbeing

A private mood trend both parents can see. Never the child's words.

ParenThing documents screen with school, medical and legal papers

Documents

School, medical and legal papers in one secure place.

ParenThing packing list for moving between two homes

Packing lists

Nothing left behind between two homes.

Child wellbeing

Know how your children are really feeling.

Children check in with how they feel. Both parents see a private mood trend over time, never the child's private words.

Daily mood check-in

A simple, child-friendly mood selector lets children show how they're feeling, without pressure or complexity.

Parent wellbeing dashboard

A private dashboard shows mood trends and weekly summaries, so small worries can be noticed early, while keeping children's words private.

Early concern alerts

When a mood pattern suggests something may be wrong, ParenThing sends a gentle alert. A chance to check in before a small worry grows.

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Ava
Age 9 · This week
Mostly good
Mood trend · last 7 days
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A gentle heads-up
Ava's mood dipped on Thursday and Friday. It might be a good moment to check in.
What families tell us

Built with the families who need it.

Having a structured, neutral space made the hardest time in our lives so much more manageable, for us and for our kids.
MCParent
Dublin
I only wish I'd had this when my daughter was younger. Every interaction would have been so much easier.
CRParent
Cork
The communication tools alone would have made such a difference. They take so much of the stress out of every conversation.
KHParent
Galway
Finally, one managed space for everything to do with the kids. I can keep communication where it belongs.
TGParent
Belfast
Both parents stay informed about appointments, milestones, everything. No more missed messages or confusion.
ERParent
Limerick

Real words from ParenThing families. Names are withheld to protect their privacy, the same way the app protects it.

Pricing

Simple pricing. One subscription per family.

No duplication between parents: one simple subscription covers the whole family. Free to start; upgrade to Premium whenever you’re ready.

Free
€0 / month
 

The essentials for staying organised.

  • Up to 2 family members
  • Secure messaging, 50 messages / month
  • Shared calendar, tasks & packing lists
  • Document storage (up to 5 files)
  • Family journal
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Most popular · One plan per family
Premium
€12.99 / month
or €119 / year

Everything, in one simple plan that covers both parents, with no double billing.

  • Everything in Free, with no limits
  • Covers both parents, one subscription per family
  • Unlimited secure messaging with tone & moderation support
  • Expenses, payments & maintenance tracking
  • Mediation tools & optional child wellbeing check-ins
  • Court-ready reports & secure document vault
  • Priority support
Download on Google Play
Your privacy, and your child's

We never sell your data. We never show ads.

Children's content is never used for profiling. ParenThing is built and hosted to a high standard, in line with GDPR.

No data sold. Ever.

Your family's information is yours. We will never sell it or use it for advertising.

Children's content protected

Children's content is never used for profiling or any purpose beyond their own experience.

GDPR compliant

Built and hosted to a high standard, in line with Irish and EU data protection law.

How it works

Three steps to a calmer everyday.

1

Set up your family

Add the children, invite the other parent, and set roles so everyone sees only what is right for them.

2

Move the everyday in

Messages, the calendar, costs and documents, all in one place instead of scattered across texts, email and WhatsApp.

3

Keep it calm and clear

Day to day runs with less friction, and you have a clear, fair record if you ever need it.

For professionals

A consent-based, court-ready view for the professionals who support families.

ParenThing gives mediators, solicitors and family support workers a tailored view of a family's communication and records, with court-ready exports when they're needed.

Mediators Solicitors Family support workers
Get in touch

Give your family a calmer way to co-parent.

ParenThing is live and free to start on Google Play. One private space for messages, schedules, money and records, covering both parents.